I think some of you would know how it feels to be judged by others or to be told that you are not good enough. Then they would tell us later that I judge you or tell you because I want you to be a good person in the future. But is it really what they want to tell us or they just want to make others feel bad?
What’s judgmental?
Being judgmental is a way of making yourself feel good about yourself by hurting others.So it is very bad that you hurt others by saying that they have a bad smell or they are dumb which is an example of bullying.
I strongly disagree with this kind of action because this behavior doesn’t make you look good but can also make you look bad. This can also make the person you judge feels terrible.And if you think that you are doing this because this can make the person you judge improve themselves.But why don’t you say it nicely? It would be a positive for bothsides.
The cause of judgmental
In general,people like to judge others or bully others to make others feel bad and make themselves feel more confident or more powerful than others.The reason of this might be because of they are insecure and they need to behave this way to make them happy, or even enjoy bullying others.
Why being Judgmental is bad?
One reason that I think that being judgemental is bad because I have once been judged before about my bucktooth. They told me that “Oh you have a buck tooth,you will never be handsome” and my feeling at that time was” really?”,Will I never be handsome? and I feel terrible at that time because they could have said having a bucktooth is fine!!! You can put braces on later. This would avoid saying hurtful words that would hurt other feelings and offensive.
Another reason that I think being judgemental is bad is that sometimes people can make suggestions that they think will be better for you. You did not ask them about their options such for example you see a guy wearing the same shirt everyday and you judge them that they are poor.Then you go straight up to him and say “Here is some money for you,I want you to use this money to buy a new shirt”. But then if he tell you that,” I’m not poor but the reason that I wear this shirt a lot of times is because this shirt belong to my lost father” How would you feel if he tells you like this.So I recommend you not to judge others before you know the truth behind it.
Some tips for people who are being judged
But if you are the person who is getting judged or bullied and don’t know what to do I also have some tips for you.
1.Walk away from them and don’t take those words personally.
2.Focus on people who love you and tell them about this.
3.Stand up for yourself or say something like”thank you for your opinion but I’m happy with what I am doing right now.
4.If they give you a dirty look and you have no idea what are they judging us about the best way for you is not to care about them,pretend that you don’t see them in your sight.This will make them feel disappointed that you didn’t care about them and will stop judging later on.
These are some useful tips for those of you who don’t know how to reply to those who judge you.
Finally just so you know I really hope you find this blog article useful to those of you who are suffering in these actions.And for those of you who like to judge others and are reading this blog article you must stop this kind of action because it doesn’t make people feel good,it is not funny at all,it makes people feel terrible and ashamed.
The best thing in the world is to feel comfortable with who you are and know that you are valued and loved by many others.
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