In this world there are many bullying in school or everywhere. Some people think that this problem is very small but for many people who see it as a disaster we have to hurry to solve it because it will cause fear to the surrounding society and can also can lead to problems in the future as well.
First what is Bully ?
A Bully is a bullying behavior especially the weaker ones and often occur in school all over the world not just in Thailand, being bullied is not uncommon “just kids pretending to play”.This world sound light for parents but in the corner of the child being abused or bullying is a very big deal for them because children face the same problems repeatedly every day until they feel stressed,lonely and depressed. There have to understand again that this is not a small matter and can affect the child’s mind in the long run or having problems with socializing when finally becoming an adult.
The bully may be divided according to the following violence characteristics
- Physical abuse such as pressing punching kicking or destroying things. Ordering other to do things they don’t want
- Using words to hurt feelings such as parody insult criticism
- Social bullying such as blocking out of interviews
Cause of bullying
The causes for bullying are varied, meaning any student can become a target, regardless of gender, race, religion, or socioeconomic status. In some case student need for attention and the desire to be perceived as brave and confident can cause them to bully. Students who experience issues at home, such as abuse and neglect or a divorce, can cause them to bully others due to despair, anger, or jealousy.
Effects of Bullying
Bullying during formative school years can have long-lasting effects. Students who are bullied may have poor academic performance as their interest and participation in school decreases, and unexplained injuries and self-destructive behavior can occur.
Emotional effects include struggles with low self-esteem, insomnia, depression, and suicidal thoughts and actions. In addition, students who are bullied are twice as likely to suffer from health problems, such as stomach issues or headaches.
Bullying does not only impact the students, but also their family and classmates. Feeling powerless and confused, parents and other family members of bullying targets may experience depression, anxiety, and stress-related illnesses. Some parents become overprotective of their children if they feel they “failed” to protect them. Friends and classmates of the student who is bullied may feel powerless to help, guilt over not standing up for the target, and fearful of becoming the next target.
