“Why isn’t your child like everyone else?”

                  Most families like to force their children to do things that they don’t want to do.

Someone got words that are really severe than they can accept.But unable to show the feeling to the parents that they are not satisfied.

                  Not only the words that the parents say only pressures the children  But there are still many events such as and Perhaps it is an important factor that causes children with mental disorders to become problems.

  And children with these problems, they don’t want to demand attention.  But he just needs someone who understands who they are.

For example, like in a movie about a young, harsh teenager  There will be events of 5 children whose psychological problems are caused by family members. 

 In this movie, I like the character of a boy named Book. 
This boy is addicted to the game like crazy.  Kinds that do not eat, do not sleep, do not come to school  The book family is not quite warm.  Mother separated to work abroad.  While Father only works  And raising children by buying computers to play games  Until the book is very addicted to the game to the point of attacking the father when the father refuses to play the game Or the medical term is called “Gaming Addiction” One day, the book’s mother came home and saw that the book was sitting in the game, refused to do homework and refused to go to school.  “Why don’t you learn to behave like other children?” The book is so dissatisfied by the mother saying this.  It is a comparison  But in the end, the family and the teacher at Dong’s school helped each other to solve the problem that the book is addicted to games by taking it to therapy.But not just the book events.

There is still a story about a girl named V, who is a full-fledged girl.  Everything is perfect. Good learning. Good family. Excellent academic performance.  But the problem with V is  Want to be number one all the time and lose without anyone having the characteristics of perfectionism  Make yourself pressure all the time.  Including studying sports, doing everything must be the best  V’s self-pressures cause friends in the room to worry that V will commit suicide.  Until when entering the school project  The teacher to find a way to help and solve the problem.

These events teach that  Teaching children to lose and not being competitive and cultivated since young  Is are they who must win  Especially in education  Must always be number one  This may include other things, for example, parents who play with children.
If it is a game that requires a loser to win  Parents often allow their children to win all the time. Children lose. Children often cry or be upset.  Instead of parents teaching children to lose naturally and win by the rules  And let him know how to deal with that emotion  But parents often claim to love children  Afraid that she was sad and therefore always gave up  Until when you have to have your own society  When he loses, he can’t feel it. 
Or severe disappointment  Don’t know how to deal with that problem And do not draw children to walk in the way they want them to be what they want, by always telling the children that because parents love children to choose this way of life for children.  By not listening to the sound of the child, for example, by placing a path so that the child can follow in his footsteps  By not watching the aptitude  Or your child’s liking  Today, Thai children face this problem in almost every matter.  Especially about studying  That children often choose to study as their parents want more than to know what they like or are familiar with or have their own life goals clearly

“Book” Gaming addiction 

“V” The Perfection