“You can’t do it.”
“Stop that idea, it’s worthless.”
“Can you think of any better?”
Many times, you are hurt by these kinds of words that really give you a negative feeling. The feeling of giving up on something, feeling defeated, and feeling like a loser. Making depression and being a reason of self-harm or suicide.
Speeches that are from ourselves and sometimes are in a bad way without realizing it. We speak a normal speech without sneaky ideas or any hidden intent but on the other side, the person who speaks with us might have a different idea to the speech.
People have different mindset and habits, some can let go, some can accept and some keep in mind every single word they hear. Some of them interpret the speech in the opposite way the speaker wanted it to be. So they depress themselves even if the speaker didn’t have that though in mind.
But the main point that causes problems in this world, is that they are people that use speeches in a bad way. Problems about using words are all over the world, but the main ones that are always heard are Bully and Gossiping.
Bullying, a reason of suiciding
Bully is a using of words or action that is violent, with intention or not to someone especially a weaker person. Anything that hurts and depresses them somehow, it’s a bully. Bullies usually come from bad society and how they are treated by families in a bad way.
They are treated in bad ways, that’s why they did bad things. Think of another way, if they are treated in a good way why would they bully others? Bad family is part of a big society and if the society is also bad, that really affects a person in a straight way without any words to explain.
Cyberbullying is a type of bully that is now affecting the online society. According to the number of students that experienced cyberbullied, over 60% of students who experience cyberbullying reported that it immensely impacted their ability to learn and feel safe while at school.
From the latest news, Hana Kimura: Suicide of Japanese wrestler blamed on online bullying.
It told us that Hana Kimura, a Japanese professional female wrestler, has suicided herself because she can’t accept how she got cyberbully anymore.
Bully is not just a normal thing that you can accept in daily life. Bully can be sometimes you make jokes with friends, or even when you have a fight with others and use a physical characteristic of that person as a joke to taunt them. This keeps us in mind that a society where everyone cares about each other really solves the problem in a right way.
What about a bullied victim revenging??
Crime is a crime, and reasoning is a way to tell the truth from what you faced.
Bullied victims are people that already have a scar, and it’s a normal thing that they will protect themselves not to face a situation like what they faced before.
Students that are victims usually have ‘only 2 choices’ to find the result of there situation, suicide or murder the person who bullies.
This does not show that victims are radical, but it shows that a bully usually comes together with dieing. The way victims retaliate against the wrongdoers is a wrong way, and reasons are different in countries and an ailment they faced. Thai victims mostly cause it because of ‘Thai teachers’ who never listen to them.
Most of the Thai teachers that are old don’t take bullying as a serious situation, they even make jokes from the serious problem of Thai victims that is a ‘student’. Thai students are stressed from this reason, so they have no other ways than choosing to eliminate the person they are scared of.
To avenge what they received.
Teachers should always give speech that suggests the right way and helps the student as much as they can, even if the problems are big or small. This is the way to use a ‘word’ as it should be, whenever.
Behind the scene, in another meaning
Talking behind the back, saying things that may be true or not but to attack others, is a Gossiping without any doubt to argue with.
Gossip changes the idea of how you believe in a person, no matter how you treat that person before. Have you ever believed that only gossip could destroy a person’s life? Cause it really does.
Gossip causes more of an effect than you think, and because there’s no evidence about gossip so you can’t prove if that person gossiped you even if you heard it by yourselves. People believe things that can be proven, but gossip has no evidence to prove the speech.
People also kill themselves for this reason, by being treated as a liar of saying things with no evidence. Most people on social media trust speech that gives more feelings of sadness, and the ones who are not believed will be attacked by a radical SJW.
This reason also causes them to die, by being judged by society. This also covers up part of gossip from the beginning because after people understand any of the parts wrong, they stereotype and talk behind them to be sure if their ideas are the same with friends and can live in society by not being gossip like the one they do.
These behind talking continues spreading in a wider society and continues until they have enough for their feelings. Examples you can see are from the news about celebrities, and some of the celebrities respond to it by using a feeling on that time, which leads you to the next and last topic…
Letting anger leads you the result
Most of the time you are angry, you usually berate others without thinking first. Because of anger, that’s why you use a ‘hatred speech’ without knowing it might engrave in another person’s mind. Making resentment and starting a new problem over and over again, which is a cycle.
The cycle can start and end anywhere, and every time it starts, someone usually dies.
Preventing a situation where someone dies, doesn’t cause any life. It needs only a little cooperation, but from everyone. Society must change the mind set that blaming others helps work better. Again, speaking is for suggesting and helping. Using a speech can cause the problem, but also helps resolving the problem.
There is a proverb about speech that gives you an idea of using words can cause you both good and bad ways, ‘Words are like knives with 2 edges’. You should also think of the other person’s feelings and not just yours, to put yourself in someone else’s shoes help you understand the main problem and express you the way of resolving it.
From what I saw is the reason for choosing this topic
” If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality. “
Desmond Tutu (Foreword)
As a student, I saw lots of problems from my article that are not resolved yet. So I’d like to represent that a speech is important to everyone and is used in daily life, so be careful of what you are saying but not to worry of what you’re doing right.
Society would be at peace, if everyone cared about speech.
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